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Online Relationships and dating safety
Signs To Look Out For
If you are in, or are interested in being in, an online
relationship, it is important to know what things to look out
for so you don't get hurt -- physically or emotionally. You'll
notice many people who can re-tale every horrible incident that
happens in online relationships, rest assured you won't find
that here. The advice you'll find below is meant for you to use
as a way to help protect yourself from getting hurt. The tips
are mostly common sense, but sometimes when it comes to love,
it's good to have it written down for reference.
Person is too secretive. This can be as simple as the person is
insecure with letting out information about themselves, to the
person being married or living with someone else.
Person is often flirting with other people online. Just as in
real life you can find "players" online. Watch how your online
interest interacts with others. You'll learn more about them, as
well as be able to spot any unusual interests.
Person wants too much information about you right away. Unless
you are 100% completely comfortable about this person, don't
give away any personal information. Even then, it is a good idea
to keep important information to yourself.
Person seems only interested in cyber or phone sex. Unless this
is something you are interested in, this relationship is
probably not going very far.
After trust has been established, person will only give you a
pager or cell phone number, but not a home number. This again
could just be precautionary, but again, it could indicate a
cheating heart.
After enough time has developed, person is adamant about not
meeting in person. The reason for this could range from the
person hiding something about their physical self, their
lifestyle, other romantic involvement's, or just protecting
themselves.
Person wants you to move to local area or in with them after
only one or two meetings. While my husband and I broke this
rule, I strongly urge other couples to really get to know each
other in person. It worked out well for me, but if follow this
advice you will find yourself more confident about your choices
if you really take the time to know them in person before
deciding to make the big traveling step.
You find person posting other personal ads online. An obvious
heartbreak!
Person keeps e-mails from other people hidden or a secret.
Something to keep an eye out for. Any relationship that begins
or is involved in secrecy has it's days numbered.
Person asks for money or other help. You may feel comfortable
with this, but it's not a good idea, especially if your just met
them. Don't open yourself to a potentially huge loss.
Person won't let your mail cards or other gifts to home address.
This is also another sign of a possible romantic interest living
with them. Take the extra precautions to make sure your online
interest is not already involved with someone.
Every tip is dependent upon your instincts. What is good for one
person may not be good for the next. Use your head, and your
instincts. If something doesn't feel right, question it and
resolve it quickly. You may discover it was a silly case of
doubt, but you may also discover it wasn't! |
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