15/04/2004
By
Sayan Liyanage
If you want and wish to have a lasting marriage with true
happiness!
I think this is a very relevant issue
considering the present time. If you just look around you, you
will see more and more failed, unhappy marriages where most of
them end up in divorce with extremely painful and heart broken
nature. It really is a pity, don't you think..? Nowadays
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couples who are married, more than 50% will end up in divorce.
This is such a shame. Because where family should be the most
important and valuable thing in man's life, most of them destroy
their entire happiness in life by simply and completely
misunderstanding the Happy marriage formula.
Now have any of you heard about that before..? Hmmmm I doubt.
But that's exactly where all of us confuse our selves and end up
in absolute misery and pain.
So what exactly is this happy marriage formula..? This is
something most of us never take in to consideration before we
hit the big knot. And it's mainly due to lack of experience and
lack of knowledge or should i say ignorance..!! Let me clear
this to you using a day to day practical example. Imagine your
sitting for a very important exam in your life. And every one
knows that if you want to pass the exam with flying colors you
should study extremely well in the relevant subject areas.
Otherwise there's no way one could pass the exam with flying
colors. And this is where cause and effect relationship
comes to action. If you want it to be an extremely good effect
or a result as far as the exam is concern, first you must
understand the cause. And then You have to take effective action
to turn that particular cause in to some thing good. So if the
exam is your cause,..either pass or failure will be the effect.
If you study well,..you will pass, and if you fool around you
will fail the exam.
Just as the above example, in order to live a happy successful
marriage, you must understand the cause and effect
relationship which leads to a blissful marriage. So what
exactly is the cause and effect relationship in a marriage…?
Take your time and think for while, what are the things that
could help you to have a very successful marriage..? Now im just
wondering how many of us think this through and understand the
importance of this before we get married.
Here are FIVE most critically important factors that will decide
whether you will have the most beautiful marriage or whether you
will end up in total emotional chaos. The point is all of us
wants to be happy and we hate to be in misery and
disappointment.
Happy marriage formula
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First
thing you must decide is to, “What exactly you want in your
life” (As far as the relationships are concerned)
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Determine
your own self
and then determine your type of Man or woman who best fit into
your personality, character etc
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Find the
right person
who’s compatible to you the most and be the best friends
before fall in love.
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Get more
close to them and take your time to know them really well
(Understanding is the foundation to true love)
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Fall in
love but take at least 2 years to study and discover the
real man or the woman in your partner before
getting married.
Now if you juts think of your self, have you ever followed
this formula in your love life..? Have you..? What is your
current situation..? Are u married or are you in the most
important stage of discovering your partner's true self before
getting married..? What ever it is, today's society is
completely off the track, Their like some group of people who
has no moral values and principles in their lives.
Someone once lived long ago defined this type of people "A man
without meaning to his life is like an empty bucket without
water in it,." Its so empty and no one has any sort of
importance from an empty bucket. It's worthless, useless and has
no value. Now back then it was referred to just one man, but
after thousand's of years now we have reached an era where we
have to apply that saying not juts to a one man, but into an
entire society. How disappointing and how sad!!!
A beautiful family life is one of the most remarkable things you
can have in your life time. And it is the golden signature of
any successful man or a woman. It is an essential part of human
evolution. It's a natural thing. But we slowly keep our self
distant from one of the most unbelievably beautiful things that
mother nature has offered us. Please don't let it happen that
way. Take above Marriage formula in to your deep consideration
and think it through really well. And determine to have the most
blissful and happy marriage life. You will be happy for the
rest of your life.
Good luck to you all
Sayan Liyanage
Love Romance Dating Guru
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