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Beyond The First Kiss
Paul
Freegale
When to plant that first kiss? Most of us men only care about
when we will get some action for the first time, let alone a
measly kiss. This is where we make too many mistakes with women.
If you aren't out to get a quick piece of ass, take it slow. You
should be able to tell if you are going to get laid quickly. If
she has screwed more than two of your friends, you know you will
get her in the bag quickly. Often times though |
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So you want to be able to keep your date past the first kiss hey
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Follow our guide to some good simple steps...
The mistake most men make is that they think they should get a
kiss on the first date. In my experience this isn't true. I
think that if we rush in too fast, we will end up scaring her
away. Think of it like you are in the woods hunting a deer. If
you go in too fast, you will make too much noise and you will
scare it away. If you do that, you will end up with no delicious
deer meat to fill your stomach. Instead you go in slow. You walk
slowly so you don't make too much noise. You scan the landscape
to make sure there is no deer in the area before moving on. If
you see that there is no deer, then you slowly creep up to your
next waiting spot. You know if you do this, you will eventually
get that deer. When you get that deer it will be the most joyful
feeling you ever had. You will eat the meat for days to come and
enjoy it like it was your first bite.
Your first kiss should be the same way. You should be just like
you would be if you were waiting for the deer. Don't push it too
fast, or you will scare it away. What is the hurry? If you hurry
too fast you will scare her away. Would you run up behind the
deer in the woods? No! You would creep up to it and be patient.
You know if you are patient, you will get your kill. You have to
understand her way of thinking. Without understanding how a
woman thinks, you will end up putting yourself in a bad
situation. Ever wonder why you aren't getting laid? Here is one
of the reasons.
Unless she is a crazed slut, she has to be careful. In this day
and age of rape and violence towards women, she has no choice.
It could save her life. A woman today has a real reason to be
afraid. You can pick up any newspaper and almost every time read
about some violent act that has taken place on a woman. She is
smart, she is protecting her safety. We are taught from a child
to stay away from strangers. Unless your date is your sister,
then chances are she doesn't know much about you. If you are
going on a date with your sister, I'm afraid I can't help you
out. You need professional help.
From day one she has been told to be leery of men. She has been
told to watch out for men who might want to rape her. Don't fool
yourself, this does effect the way a woman thinks. Take it slow.
If she is the southern bell type, it maybe a few dates before
you get that first kiss. Don't put too much pressure on her to
kiss you. If you are having a good time on your dates, keep it
up. No reason to ruin a good thing, right?
If you aren't enjoying the dates and you are just out to get in
her pants, you must be one horny fellow to keep going on dates
with her. I would consider why it is that you keep going out
with her. If you don't enjoy her company and you are just trying
to get some action, either you haven't had any for awhile or you
have issues. No one in their right mind wants to per sue someone
they aren't happy with. Take it slow. Don't worry about that
first kiss. If you end up working too hard for it, you will
scare her away. If she is a real catch, then you don't want to
do that. All you will be doing is swimming in circles looking
for the next fish. Instead, use body language. That will help
you get that first kiss. Do it softly, don't over do it. That is
worse than trying to jam your tongue down her throat.
Look into her eyes when you talk to her. That will send the
message that you enjoy what she has to say. Give her that look
that tells her that you are interested. Smile often when you are
together. Look happy. This will show her that you enjoy her
company. Ask for a hug. Sometimes women are more adapt to giving
a hug than a kiss. To me, this can be better than a kiss. If you
give her a nice tight bear hug, you will get to feel her
boobies. Make sure if you do this you aren't wearing tight
pants, it would be embarrassing for her to see you with a hard
on.
All in all, just go slow. There is no reason why you have to
hurry. If you enjoy her company, you have all the time in the
world. If rush too fast you won't get that first kiss, if you
take it nice and slow, there will be many more kisses in the
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